As the days get shorter and the chill of winter begins to set in, you might notice a shift in your mood, your energy, or even your motivation. For some people, this seasonal change can lead to something deeper—a condition known as Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. SAD can leave us feeling disconnected, tired, irritable, and at times, a little hopeless. The good news is that there are ways to manage these feelings and find some peace during the colder months.
This blog will explain what SAD is, why it happens, and offer some resources to help you navigate through this challenging (and cold!) time of year.
What is Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)?
Seasonal Affective Disorder is a form of depression that typically emerges during the fall and winter months, when daylight is limited and the weather tends to keep us indoors. While many of us may feel a bit “off” when the seasons change, SAD is different—it’s a more persistent and serious form of depression that can significantly impact daily life.
Some common symptoms of SAD include:
- A feeling of fatigue or low energy (even after a full night’s sleep)
- Struggling to complete typical daily tasks
- Difficulty getting out of bed or facing the day
- A sense of hopelessness or sadness that lingers
- Changes in appetite, especially cravings for carbs or sugary foods
- Excessive sleepiness or trouble sleeping
- Feeling detached from loved ones or withdrawing socially
If this sounds familiar, it’s important to recognise that these symptoms are not a sign of personal weakness or failure. Seasonal depression is real, and it’s something that can be managed with care, awareness, and the right tools.
What contributes to SAD?
While the exact causes of SAD are not completely understood, there are several factors that contribute to why it affects some people more than others:
- Less Sunlight: During the colder months, we simply get less sunlight, and sunlight plays a key role in regulating our mood. Less exposure to natural light can disrupt your circadian rhythms (your body’s internal clock), and affect the production of serotonin, the “feel-good” chemical in your brain.
- Melatonin Imbalance: As daylight shortens, the body may produce more melatonin, a hormone that regulates sleep. For some people, this increased melatonin production leads to feeling more tired and lethargic, making it harder to stay awake, focused, or motivated.
- Biological Sensitivity: Some individuals may be biologically predisposed to SAD, with genetics playing a role in how we respond to light and darkness. If you have a family history of depression or mood disorders, you might be more susceptible to experiencing SAD.
- Psychosocial Factors: The colder months often bring more isolation and fewer social activities, which can worsen feelings of loneliness or disconnection. The holiday season, while joyful for many, can also create stress or feelings of inadequacy.
But while there’s a biological and environmental component to SAD, it doesn’t mean you have to passively wait for the season to pass. There are mindful, compassionate ways to approach this time of year that can truly help you feel better.
Tips to Manage SAD
When it comes to managing Seasonal Affective Disorder, you don’t need to push yourself into more exercise or rigid routines if that feels overwhelming. Instead, here are some gentle, mindful strategies to help you nurture your mental and emotional well-being throughout the season.
1. Spend Time with Nature!
As simple as it sounds, light plays a crucial role in regulating our moods. Try to make the most of any natural daylight, even if it’s just a few minutes in the morning. If you live somewhere with long, dark winters, consider investing in a light therapy box. These specially designed lamps mimic sunlight and can help reset your internal clock, giving you a boost of energy and a lift in mood.
If a light box isn’t for you, aim to spend time near windows, sit outside during daylight, or even just open the blinds. Little moments of sunlight exposure can make a surprisingly big difference.
2. Practice Grounding Techniques
When the days feel overwhelming, it can be easy to get lost in your head. Grounding techniques are simple practices that bring you back into the present moment and help quiet the noise of anxious or depressive thoughts.
A simple grounding exercise is the 5-4-3-2-1 method:
- 5 things you can see (look around you and notice details you might have missed)
- 4 things you can feel (the ground beneath your feet, your breath, the fabric of your clothes)
- 3 things you can hear (the hum of your environment, birds chirping, distant conversations)
- 2 things you can smell (coffee brewing, fresh air, anything nearby)
- 1 thing you can taste (maybe it’s the taste of your morning tea or the lingering flavor of a meal)
This practice helps you reorient your attention away from negative thinking and back into the present, where you have more control.
3. Nurture Your Mind with Compassionate Self-Talk
When you’re dealing with SAD, it’s easy to fall into negative thinking patterns. You may find yourself telling yourself things like, “I’m not doing enough” or “I’m just not good at handling this.” But these thoughts only deepen feelings of shame and isolation. Instead, practice self-compassion—treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer to a loved one going through a tough time.
When you catch yourself in a negative thought loop, try pausing and gently asking, “What would I say to a friend right now?” Chances are, you’d offer words of support, encouragement, and patience. Extend that same care to yourself.
4. Mindful Breathing to Alleviate Stress
Taking a few moments each day to practice mindful breathing can help you create a sense of calm. A simple technique I often recommend is the 4-2-6 breathing method:
- Inhale through your nose for 4 counts.
- Hold your breath for 2 counts.
- Exhale slowly through your mouth for 6 counts.
Breathing in this rhythm can help reduce anxiety, slow your heart rate, and promote relaxation. Try to set aside just 2 minutes each day to focus on your breath, particularly during stressful or low moments. It can make a world of difference.
5. Create a Cozy, Healing Environment
If you’re feeling down, sometimes your environment can either uplift you or make things feel worse. Embrace the season by creating a space that feels warm, calming, and restorative. Light candles, wrap up in soft blankets, or enjoy a cup of your favorite tea. Little acts of self-care like these can create a sense of sanctuary, even when it’s cold outside.
If possible, find ways to bring nature indoors—whether that’s through plants, natural textures, or simply watching the snowfall from your window. These small touches can help counterbalance the heaviness of winter’s darkness.
6. Stay Connected (Even in Small Ways)
SAD can often lead to a sense of social withdrawal. The shorter days and colder weather may make it harder to feel motivated to socialize. But staying connected with friends, family, or community—whether in person, over the phone, or through video chats—is essential. Isolation can deepen feelings of depression, so even small, consistent interactions can be immensely helpful.
Reach out to those you trust, let them know how you’re feeling, and don’t be afraid to ask for the support you need. You’re not a burden—you’re just human.
7. Seek Professional Support When Needed
If you find that your symptoms are becoming overwhelming, don’t hesitate to seek professional support. Therapy can be an incredibly helpful resource, and you don’t have to go through this alone. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for helping individuals reframe negative thought patterns and develop healthier coping strategies.
If medication is recommended by a healthcare provider, that’s okay too. Everyone’s journey is different, and what works best for you is what matters most.
8. Exercise
Even just 5-10 minutes of physical activity can make a significant difference when combating seasonal affective disorder. Short bursts of exercise help boost the release of mood-enhancing chemicals like norepinephrine, serotonin, dopamine, and endorphins, which can lift your spirits and improve your overall sense of well-being. Regular exercise also helps reduce stress hormones such as cortisol and adrenaline, which tend to rise during periods of emotional distress. Additionally, physical activity promotes neuroplasticity—the brain’s ability to adapt and learn new things—helping you build resilience in the face of seasonal challenges. So, even on the toughest days, moving your body, even for just a few minutes, can be a powerful tool to improve your mood and mental health.
Final Thoughts: Be Gentle with Yourself
Seasonal Affective Disorder can feel isolating, but I want to remind you that it’s completely valid to experience these shifts in mood. You don’t have to “push through” the season or try to power through the darkness. With the right mindset, practices, and support, you can manage your feelings with compassion and patience.
Remember that you don’t need to be perfect—just take things one step at a time, and know that brighter days are ahead. Be kind to yourself this season. You deserve it.